Don't Share Your Las Vegas Divorce on Social Media

Thinking of tweeting what an ass your soon to be ex is? Think again! 

Whenever we sign in to social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and LinkedIn, we can easily come across several forums dedicated to those that have just gone through a divorce. The idea of these forums is to give advice, help and emotional support to those that have just gone through the trauma of splitting up with their spouse and are going through the motions of a divorce.

However, our strong advice is that you must not share your Las Vegas divorce on any social media. When you go through a divorce there will undoubtedly be a number of legal avenues that you and your ex-spouse must deal with. Issues such as what assets will be deemed as community property, how much pension has to be shared. Even if you are the breadwinner in a marriage situation, half of what you own in property will be usually given to your spouse in the eyes of Las Vegas legal law.

  

Entering details on social media sites like Facebook or Twitter is not recommended as there could always be legal repercussions for you when you get in front of the judge. The internet and social media are still relatively new to all of us and it still surprises us to learn that just a decade ago, very few people used social media to engage with friends or members. We have become so accustomed in such a short amount of time to live our lives through social media so it goes to say, when you are engaged in a bitter divorce, it is easy to lash out that very second and try to show your friends how badly you are being treated to get instant gratification that you are justified.

Most of are aware of the rules and policies of Facebook and Twitter and for the most part if you don't follow those policies you could be banned by either social media platform.  Most Facebook Friends and Twitter Followers will sympathize with your struggle but really don't appreciate being bombarded with snippy hate comments.  Many don't know how to react yet feel they need to support. But in the eyes of the Las Vegas divorce laws, any tweets of Facebook comments you put online can come back and prove to be detrimental in your fight to gain assets from your failed marriage.

  

What you can and cannot put on social media is very unclear but a good lawyer will find a way to hold any comments you make online at social media sites against you. Whilst it is probably OK to announce to your friends and family that you are now going through a divorce, any further details about your divorce should be left within the four walls of your solicitors offices and your very close friends and family members.

  

Put simply, it just isn’t worth going through the public web feeds of Facebook, LinkedIn, Google+ and Twitter to give any details regarding your Las Vegas divorce.

Las Vegas Divorce Why You Should Avoid Bitterness When Dividing Assets

According to John E. Cereso, Managing Partner Nevada Law Group, "When a couple go through the trauma and upheaval of a divorce, there is still much pain and heated debate surrounding the division of assets to be sorted, and Las Vegas divorce proceedings have all the potential to be problematic." To get the asset division just right and one where all parties can agree upon the final resolution requires extensive knowledge of LasVegas divorce law as well as skill in evaluating any securities, business assets and outstanding pensions.

More often that not during a Las Vegas divorce proceeding, one party may try to conceal assets so an investigation by a Las Vegas divorce lawyer or private detective can often become necessary. One of the main areas of one party's assets lies in property. In the case of community property, for example, any community property acquired through the term of the marriage from either spouse must be split 50/50. This is regardless of which spouse earned the money to pay for the property and who the breadwinner was during the marriage.

But what about property that was owned solely by one partner where a home may have been offered as gift from the other spouse, or even a family member. This is classed as separate property unless it has been converted to community property.  You should consult with a Las Vegas divorce lawyer in order to find out what your community property rights are.

What about the pension funds accrued during the term of the marriage where one spouse works and pays into a pension? In this instance any pension funds accrued while in marriage becomes subject to community property, meaning this must be shared equally between the two.

Liquid assets must also be considered because if one spouse gains full control of the family home, the other spouse must allow for enough money to pay for taxes accrued on the property and other funds and expenses, such as an HOA fee, renting a new home or apartment and having enough money to resettle.

Community property can also include debt that may have accumulated through the term of the marriage. If one spouse has accumulated credit card debt or loan debt then the money owed is considered to be community property and both parties must pay the sum off.

If you are contemplating divorce in Las Vegas Nevada Law Group offers free consultation to discuss all your questions.  Give us a call to talk to an attorney John E. Cereso, Managing Partner today.

Resources for your Divorce:
Family Court

 

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Why You Should Keep Your Children Out of Your Divorce Proceedings

Although most children are more resilient to the trauma of divorce or when their parents split up then adults will give them credit for, they are not immune to some of the heartache and emotional wounds that are likely to occur. The unfortunate side of divorce is that the kids can ultimately suffer in many ways, particularly if they are still in the pre-teen stage of adolescence. More often than not, kids do not do well at school when their parents are going through a divorce and furthermore, kids who witness a marital break up of their own parents are twice as likely to go through a divorce themselves when they grow up.

There is also the damage that can be caused to education planning, or lack of it, in a divorce proceeding. When a child leaves school, he or she will want to have the opportunity to fund their college or university experience, but with only one parent now under their wing there is less chance that the pupil will get the necessary funding. In worse case scenarios, kids whose parents are going through a divorce are 25 percent more likely to experiment with drugs or alcohol before their 18^th birthday.

Adults Must Be The Mature Ones...

Avoiding these risks takes a huge act of maturity from both the parents. They may be at war and within a legal state of division, but the children should not be held accountable and cannot suffer as a result of divorce proceedings. When two people are going through a divorce where children are concerned, there has to be an agreement and compromise when dealing with matters concerning the kids.

Although children should be left out of the divorce proceedings, parents must not abandon the child. If one parent chooses willingly to move out of the community property then he or she must keep in regular contact with all the children, even if the access rights are agreed via the legal route. Another risk factor for kids is when parents split up, a child often suffers from a deteriorating state of financial gloom. This is why it's so important that the divorce assets are split fairly and even favour the parent that ends up taking custody of the children.

Parents that are going through a divorce must leave children out of the proceedings but must also mutually agree that the welfare of the child has to be paramount and becomes a mutual priority among the divorcing couple.

Here are some helpful resources for families going through a divorce:

The Importance of Fathers in The Healthy Development of Children

The Effects of Father Involvement by Father Involvement Research Alliance

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